Relationship to Change
Why is it that most people go through life with hopes and wishes that are not created into results? Yet other people, Extraordinary Result producers, are able to turn their dreams into reality? What is it that we are doing, who is it that we are being, that allows us to produce Extraordinary Results while other people are still wishing and hoping and dreaming that someday it will all turn out?
There are specific distinctions that exist in the paradigm of Extraordinary Result producers that do not exist in the paradigm of ordinary result producers. It is the differences in these distinctions that are the cause of hope and wished being manifested into results.
The basic paradigm distinction of Extraordinary Result producers is that we want what we want and we are willing to transform our relationship with fear, change, and being uncomfortable to achieve our goals. Ordinary result producers talk about what they want with an endless conversation of blah, blah, blah, blah, blah... but ultimately they are not willing to take the actions necessary to create Extraordinary Business Results.
The reason for this is that ordinary result producers listen to their mind chatter. The mind's job is to protect you. The best way for your mind to do that is to stop you from taking risks and changing your goal to one that exists in a space that is safe, comfortable and familiar. So, while people talk about what they want with determination and bravery, they listen and take actions based on their feelings and thoughts to stay with what is known, safe and comfortable.
As Extraordinary Result producers, we have transformed the context in which we hold our mind chatter and the concepts of safe vs. fear, familiar vs. change, and comfortable vs. uncomfortable.
As Extraordinary Result producers, we initiate change. We are constantly looking at what is versus what we want and constantly putting new ideas into action to create what we want. Extraordinary Result producers know that if we are to produce Extraordinary Results, we must be the cause of change.
To accomplish change at this level requires Extraordinary Result producers to take their goals outside of their thoughts and feelings, to put them in writing and communicate them to like minded people who support the accomplishment of their goals. This process takes our hopes and dreams from a wish to a commitment. A commitment to the result is required, otherwise ordinary human beings will listen to their mind chatter and weasel out of the actions they have to take.
If Extraordinary Result producers are constantly changing their actions, yet the desired results are not being produced as a result, they go to a second level of change which is changing who they are being, how they are reacting and the attitudes they are communicating. To change at this level requires total understanding and acceptance of the fact that we are 100% responsible (ability to choose our response) for our lives, our businesses and the circumstances in which we find ourselves.
Extraordinary Result producers have also transformed their relationship with fear. To Extraordinary Result producers, fear is not something to run from or to avoid with activities (as distinguished from actions) that numb the feeling of fear. Fear becomes the guide for the next territory to be conquered. Fear tells the Extraordinary Result producer that we are on course, we are playing outside the box, outside the comfort zone, we are growing. Once you have determined that fear does not represent a true or unreasonable business threat, feel the feeling and take the actions. Be unstoppable.
Being an Extraordinary Result producer also requires a transformation within the context of being comfortable. There is a saying that being an Extraordinary Result producer is a process of learning to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Living a life, running a business outside the box, outside of your comfort zone, requires us to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
We invite you to produce Extraordinary Business Results. Initiate change, feel fear, be uncomfortable and continue taking actions to create Extraordinary Results. Before you know it, that space of change, fear and being uncomfortable will become comfortable. It is just a game. Relax and enjoy the ride. It is fabulous once we stop limiting ourselves and start producing Extraordinary Business Results.
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